Dating someone in CRNA school is not for the faint of heart. It’s a season marked by intense schedules, late nights, early mornings, and a partner whose brain is often crammed full of pharmacology, induction doses, and clinical prep. But it’s also a season of growth, resilience, and teamwork—if you approach it with the right mindset. There’s a way to make it through as a team.
Here are three tips to help you not only survive, but thrive, while your partner is chasing their dream of becoming a CRNA:
1. Have a Hobby
Your partner will spend long hours in the library, in clinicals, or class. Having your own hobbies helps you fill that time with something enriching rather than just counting the hours until they’re done. Whether it’s learning guitar, joining a sports league, baking, painting, or volunteering, investing in your own interests keeps your life full and balanced. Plus, it gives you more to share and talk about when you do have time together.
2. Plan Dates in Advance
Spontaneity is lovely—but in CRNA school, schedules are tight. Instead of waiting for the perfect moment to “just happen,” be intentional about planning dates ahead of time. A calendar can become your best friend: pick a day, reserve the time, and protect it. Whether it’s a coffee break, a weekend brunch, or a mini day trip, having something to look forward to makes the grind feel more manageable for both of you. It’ll be what they look forward to after a long week of exams or clinical and it can help you stay better connected through this season.
3. Focus on the Future
There will be days when CRNA school feels endless—for your partner and for you. In those moments, keep your eyes on the bigger picture, remember the “why” in this season. Remind yourself that this is a temporary season and that the sacrifices now are building toward a future filled with more time, stability, and exciting opportunities. Celebrate milestones – first intubation, DNP project presentations, completing each year – find joy through this season. Every milestone, even the small ones, bring you one step closer towards the end and keep conversations about your shared dreams alive.
Final Thought:
Dating someone in CRNA school is a team effort. It requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to adapt—but it can also strengthen your relationship in ways you never expected. By building your own life, planning intentional time together, and focusing on the future, you can not only support your partner but also grow as an individual. In the end, remember this is a temporary season for the life you are building together, give one another grace as you navigate this trying season, and you will make it out together.
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